From Helplessness to Empowerment: Break Free from Doubt and Take the Lead
In the past 5 months, I've talked to many friends who have regular jobs. Most of them tell me, "Ashok, I wish I could do what you did, but I can't because of EMIs, family opinions or I am not ready yet." It seems like they're stuck or someone is holding them back.
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Let me share my story. I have to pay a big EMI of 1.5L every month along with other expenses like school fees and insurance. Fortunately, my dad lends a hand with household expenses, but aside from that, it's up to me to manage everything. My situation isn't all that different from yours.
Here's the reality – waiting for the perfect moment to begin something new is just a dream. Take control of your situation and start making things happen. I'm not saying quit your job, but do take charge.
First, make a plan. What I did was save up enough money to cover 6 months of expenses before I started something new. For you, the amount might be different and the path might be different.
Think about the worst thing that could happen. Even if your new thing doesn't work out, you'll gain experience that many companies value. They like hiring people who have faced challenges. You'll learn things you'll always remember and the best part is you won't have regrets and helpless feelings.
Remember, that helpless feeling you have after some time you will get used to it and no one who has that or got used to it ever made anything meaningful in their life. They always stayed sad, felt like a victim and never did their best.
Take charge and flip the script! 🌟